The Blueprint for Your Dream Life ( lesson #3) - صفحه 3


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    مریم کاشانکی گفته:
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    Question 1:
    To me, one of the greatest techniques to filter out negative thoughts from my mind is the one I’ve learned through the trainings of the professor, Mr. Abasmanesh. Actually learning and practicing this technique have made great changes in my daily life.
    The technique is to look at the situation from another perspective and try to find something positive in or around it to feel better about it.
    No matter if I myself have made a mistake or something bad has happened or this is a negative situation or just a negative scenario happening in my mind, since I’ve learned this technique I try to practice it in any negative situation and it really changes the game.
    I have so many personal experiences in this area from very challenging situations I have been there that through this technique I could replace the negative thoughts with positive ones so the result became completely different.
    When something negative happens or comes to my mind I intentionally start a positive self talk to myself like:
    “This situation helped me to get that piece of information that I was in need, or it helped me to understand what I really want, or there was that blessing in it, or it caused me to prevent that huge loss or it learned me something very valuable or in the future I’m gonna use this experience or it showed me one of my weaknesses that I can fix….”
    Or many other conversations we can make based on the situation. It will really make us feel much better in that negative situation and feeling better will help us to see the real blessings in negative situations because everything is positive in its nature and everything will eventually become positive even if it looks different. This is something that I’ve tried to believe and it has helped me a lot.
    So I highly recommend anybody that might read this comment to start using this technique and benefit the changes it can make.

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    Mohammad Ebrahim Shojaee گفته:
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    Hi Ostad.
    Thank you gor this new challenging category.
    My answer to first question:
    Absolutely it is so hard. If it were easy, everyone would achieved what he/she wanted. But there isn’t a tricking way. As you always mention, if you want want something, you should pay for it,try for it and go on the true way consistently. The results appear soon and they become bigger and bigger if you don’t give up.
    So I try filter negative and unwanted thoughts by focusing on what I want. I try hear good news, talk about positive incidents and not to see and talk about negative things. Surely I don’t try to change other’s way of thinking, but just try follow my right route. As I said it’s hard, but as you keep going on, it would be easier to do.
    Second answer:
    In whole of my life I wasn’t a negativist. I’ve been optimistic. Although it wasn’t enough for an enormous success. Because in the inner layers of my mind, and anyone’s else, there is negative thoughts and beliefs.
    The 3rd answer:
    I feel it. Optimistic people have a good and pleasant sense. Our unconscious mind feel it. So I rely on my feelings and as long as I am optimistic and try to avoid being negative, the people like my thinking and feeling, come up with me.

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    سجاد طبسی نژاد گفته:
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    All the rest
    Greetings to my dear teacher and lady Shaista and my wonderful friends
    May the New Year be the best for everyone and may it be named in the direction of a beautiful and special path, God willing
    Understanding the law of creation is the foundation of every belief
    And I agree I realized that the first thing should be the understanding of the law of creation. We came to the dream plan of life, part three:
    How much more these days I thank God for understanding the focus of my attention, because now I understand very well that we humans are even a world of topics, attentions and thoughts. Seemingly unrelated or unimportant, they can be harmful, poisonous, and energy-wasting for us to achieve our desired goals and life. Now let’s do it. Well, he has a high understanding of the law of energy and concentration, and how extremely valuable this concentration really is. They used it for big and small demands, and it is enough to remember how they tried and tried to prune the non-original points and not let the disturbing edges affect their movement
    But unfortunately, people forget many things soon.
    For a long time, I myself do not put worthless media, low-quality people, low-quality books, negative and low-quality thoughts and memories, and any thoughts and beliefs that are useless and worthless in my backpack, but throw them out and delete
    and how much more this is happening to me now that my ears hang from the law of creation, I know that watching and listening, in short, receiving uninteresting inputs leads my mind, whether I want it or not, so we come to the conclusion that we must always Good luck, what are we paying attention to, what kind of movies, pictures, writings and what are we talking about? We can use it to create the desired life, we can also use it to destroy our life
    A few days ago, a desire formed in me and I asked God with a good feeling, and I felt a sense of liberation towards it, and a few days later I reached it. It’s not worth it. It comes to my mind. I quickly tell myself that it’s not worth spending my valuable energy on it. I quickly change it towards paying attention to my desires
    So using the center of attention to create desires every moment is of infinite value, and I always work so hard to believe that even Most of the nights, my dreams are of the law of beliefs, even last night
    I love you all, be alone in God’s shelter.

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    سمیه اسفندیاری گفته:
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    GreetingsDear professor, I thank you and admire you for your movement and new ideas
    1:When negative thoughts come and I have no control over them because it has become a habit of thinking, I deliberately start saying affirmative words that I made and tell my mind that you are made for whispers and to scare me and I have a great God who is capable I have everything I want and I consciously say, O God, I only worship you and only seek help from you, and I consciously give myself hope and motivation and remember my good days… 2: Yes, when I consciously removed television and news from my life. And I took the time to work on myself and God guided me to the site and to work on the courses and files, doors of peace and liberation and doors of knowledge were opened to me, I thank God for the teacher who became my guide… 3: When I work on myself and my thoughts, the people around me change or move away from me without me struggling and trying. When you are on the right path, things will be done by themselves, and if there is someone who is a member of my family or I don’t pay attention or I only think about the good things (arousal in relationships) I stop complaining and arguing and try to make peace with myself and focus only on myself because everything depends on our beliefs and all responsibility I take charge of my life and in all cases I say that I am the creator of my own life and I forgive myself and remove the feeling of guilt from myself… Dear teacher, I thank you and your divine and unique site, I love you.

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    بهار بختیاری گفته:
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    My dear master
    Hi and I miss you much.
    For answering questions I can say:
    How do you filter out negative and nonproductive thoughts from your mind and replace them with positive ones?
    I have two ways for filtering my negative thoughts.
    Firstly I try to find how my negative thoughts did start? And after finding it, I attempt to focus in bright side of thoughts. I believe that in each subject you can find positive and productive thoughts on it. This way of thinking help me every moment that change my feeling.
    Second way that I use is ” question”.
    Question help me for changing my mood and help me to get find answer because I love solving problems generally. My mind think this problem is like a math problem and game will change.
    How do you ensure that the people in your life have a positive impact on your thoughts and goals, rather than bringing negativity and doubt?
    I have learnt it in painful way. One day I send request to Lord that I want a dishwasher. I said to my friend and she answered:” ohhh it isn’t like before, it is sooo expensive, the best way is buying a used machine.” Can you guess what does it happen? I forget my request as easy as I writing. Some month later I remember my request and answer myself:” why did you forget dishwasher?, Do you believe in Lord? Do you believe in aboundence???”
    I was good lesson that I must have safe and positive people in my zone….

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    اسماعیل صابری گفته:
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    Hi dear master Abasmanesh.
    This is my first English comment for in your English files. I’m so happy and so thanksfull for being here and learning from your excellent journeys. Thanks a lot for your growth and being a shiny pattern for everyone wants to grow in all aspects of his life. I follow the most part of your educations and l learned a lot from them and I used them in my life truely. Thanks God, thank you.
    One of my best actions to change my negative mind and thoughts is think to the law of universe that if I send negative frequency to universe, it acts negatively and will send me events that are negative and then my mind fastly accepts to change my thoughts to positive one. I learned this useful technique from your excellent educations and files.
    Another way to change my negative thoughts to positive one is that I love good mood and feelings and I say my mind and my God, please help me with your endless power to feel better to be better and then after a little time my feeling and my my starts to being better.
    Thanks a lot.

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    سلیمان کریمی گفته:
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    Hello to my dear teacher abasmanesh and dear miss shayeste Answer number 1: I though a lot about this question and also remembered your teachings that I am using in my life. So when something doesn’t right work or something unexpected happens and the negative thoughts comes. The first thing I do is tell myself that if I let these thoughts stay in my head , worse things will happen because this is a law.So I immediately look for a solution to filter negative thoughts and get out of that bad mood .For example: I play with my phone or watch a movie or go for a walk or if the time is right, I go to the gym and exercise. In short , I do something physical that will tire my body and calm my mind. and this cases where these things do not work, I refer to this site , which is really always helpful and works.

    Answer number 2: of course, for example when I chose not to watch tv anymore and not to spend my time in vain , my mood changed a lot. Or in the past few months, when the situation in the country was not very interesting, I decided to stay away from the news and control my mind, and the result was that I was very well, despite the fact that everyone was talking about unemployment and problems, I was busy with my own plans and I was enjoying a lot and good things were happening to me

    Answer number 3:

    I completely agree with you that the people in our lives have a direct impact on our events and mood. When I was in university, I had a friend who always made people feel bad about themselves and always focused on peoples negative points and making fun of peoples . In fact, when I realized how much this feature has damaged my relationships, I immediately cut ties with person and we stopped seeing each other. And when I focused on the positive of others I saw how much my relationship improved and how much my mood changed towards myself and I was able to improve.

    Thanks a lot for your training and I hope always be ok and healthy

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    یوسف علیزاده گفته:
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    In the name of God , the compassionate the merciful
    Hello to my dear master and all my friends in beautiful landscape of Abasmanesh
    To answer of questions I should say:
    1- Actually I use leisure and suffering lever , whenever I face a negative aspect of my thoughts first I say I make it with my thoughts, second I tell myself the more I stay in this negative feeling , the more worst things happen into my life so I can learn from this event and be grateful for other aspects of my life
    2- Yes of course, I used to listen and watch news and nonproductive media in the past , and the result was bad and suffering for me, As soon as I changed the source of media and eliminate news and nonproductive media that I consumed, I noticed positive results on my thoughts
    3- I noticed their results, I noticed their thoughts and speeches, I noticed their gratitude. If a person gained good results usually shows he/she is grateful and calm and honest and happy in his/ her life. So by the help of their results I find out he/she has a positive impact on me

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    شهرزاد گفته:
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    Hello my dear mentor and all my lovely friends.Thanks for sharing another precious lesson. Let’s go ahead and begin responding to questions.1.Answer to first question:Actually mind control and filtering the useless thoughts which make me feel bad still is a everyday’s challenge for me myself. Some days less and some days more; but for me it’s directly connected to my relationship with God and faith. You remind a fantastic sentence from Qoran in one of your files under name of “The Signs of Attract Law in Qoran”. That sentence’s meaning is “whispering is only from the side of devil to make you sad.” Whenever my mind starts to say bull-shits I try to suffocate her in the beginning with reminding myself this sentence of Qoran. I learned that I must not let the specific negative thought to continues and gets power in my mind because if it continues, it will get power and then making it silent will be so difficult! So from the first that one negative thought wants to come to my mind, I try to not let even the first sentence of negative thought be completed in my mind and I say to myself “whispering is only from the side of devil to make you sad Shahrzad. So be careful to not fall into the trap. The God that guided and supported you until here, will guid you for the rest of the path too.” The days that my relationship with the Creator of the universe is more powerful, the negative thoughts will be ended up immediately after warning to myself, but the days that my focus is more on my job instead of working on myself and working on my relationship with God, it may takes a little more time to make the whispers silent and devil makes a little fun with my mind for himself, but by the way I’m the winner at the end.In addition to above I have to add a point. Sometimes negative thoughts are from a source that must not be made silent or ignore; in-fact it’s due to a problem or a matter that is in conflict to our desires that must be solved. For example recently I noticed that one of my staff had done a very bad mistake in the job which could make serious problems. With the help of God I was informed at the last moment and I modified it. But after that the negative thoughts were coming to my mind that may be some other mistakes exist that I haven’t noticed them yet! For a while as my focus was to increase the volume of my sales, I was oblivious to control all operation matters and now it was causing some problems. For this time I could not and should not to just ignore negative thoughts and replace them with good ones. Actually I had to solve the problem completely. Next day I went to my work sooner than always, I checked all emails and documents of the current projects. It took some days and finally I checked all but at the end I finally got that there are 3 other serious mistakes from this staff’s side. I talked with her seriously, she felt ashamed and started to cry. I finished the conversation and just asked her to be more concentrated at work and I asked her for issuing each and single document, first I should check the document and confirm it. Two days passed, she brought a document to me for confirmation and I found another mistake in it. Then I realized that I’m expecting her more than her capacity and I have to add another staff to help in doing some parts of jobs.Therefore about these kind of matters, they must be solved completely.2.Answer to second question:Yes sure. Before being familiar with you, my dear mentor, I’d like to watch famous American series at nights. However it helped me to improve my English but during the night my dreams were about the series topics and also as the series were involving the mind, during the day I was somehow stressed and not feeling very good. When I stopped all series and medias to focus on your files, I was relieved and thinking positive and motivated was easier.In my idea the most important action for starting this path for everyone is to stop using medias and stop relationship with people who don’t have any goals or their believes are obviously In opposite of your lessons.3. Answer to third question:As I mentioned in responding to second question, it’s really important to not be in contact with negative people. In the past I had some friends, one was talking about her doubts about her husband, the other was gossiping her mother-in-law most of the times and generally having a goal and talking about positive matters was a joke for them. When I stopped relationship with them a huge energy leak was removed from my life. About the people who are in contact with me now, they know very well that they cannot talk about negative matters with me. However they’re personalities aren’t negative type of people but even in relation with me they’re more positive.Controlling the inputs of the mind (medias and people around) , was the main key for entering the path for me myself.Thanks again my dear mentor, God bless you.

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      Kazemi NEDA گفته:
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      Hi dear shahrzad
      I read your profil in site and enjoy of your improvment .
      From salary increase in firm to idea startig your garden for client attract.
      Also practice english in your work
      And now you can read and write here easily and this is result continue a skill.
      Iwish i could be such you and i can find my favarite job and be independent .i see your name for first and read your story i dont knowe why i have a feel good to you my dear freind
      I hope see you soooon
      Good luck

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    امین ابریشم کار گفته:
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    Allah AkbarThanks God for my teacher who teaches me universe rules in english.10 months ago I began to learn english as my heart told me.after that I arranged to learn english, now I am a person who cans writing english well.Thanks God for I heard my heart-voice.This was my story that i want to share with you.God takes care of you.This is my first comment that was in english.If god wants(enshaAllah) I will back soon to make another comment for my friendsThanks a lot.I love all of you.

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