هدفی متفاوت برای سال جدید - صفحه 31 (به ترتیب امتیاز)

Thank you for this insightful video. These are some of the key points I took away from it:

We need a new personality in order to develop and maintain new habits.

Our personality is the sum of our beliefs about ourselves and the world.

That is why we remain the same if we do not change our way of thinking.

We achieve the desires we feel worthy of more easily and quickly, in terms of health, wealth, work, relationships, etc.

Self-worth is the basis for success.

It is important how we see ourselves:

– Do we believe that what we do is valuable?

– Do we think that we’re creating value in the world?

– Do we believe that we can learn new things?

– What thoughts do we have about ourselves?

– What do we think about ourselves when we look in the mirror, not only about our appearance, but also about our abilities?

– Do we think that we are lovable?

– Do we pay attention to our strengths and remember our past achievements?

– Do we feel stuck or do we believe that we can make further progress?

We can be successful in any area of our lives where we feel we are worthy of experiencing the best. For example, we can have financial success if we believe that what we do is valuable and has a positive impact on people’s lives.

Our self-talk creates our reality, which includes the ideas that cross our minds, the people we meet, the experiences we have, and the general conditions of our lives.

It is important that our desires are in line with our own personality, lifestyle, values, interests, and preferences and not to please others, show off, or prove ourselves to others.

Determining what you want is the first step in setting goals, as it helps us recognize our REAL desires.

When we have a desire for ourselves, we have more fire within us to achieve it because it is based on an inner driving factor and not an outer one.

We are different people with different interests and personality traits. So we can realize what we really want.

Don’t be influenced by the expectations of others. Otherwise, you won’t have the necessary motivation to achieve your goals.

If you want something just for yourself, the process of achieving it will have a natural and smooth flow because you are inspired and can easily visualize it, instead of forcing it.

So the two most important factors to consider when setting goals are: 1- Setting a goal that is for yourself and not for others. 2- Feeling that you are worthy of achieving it.

Self-worth, self-love, and self-respect are crucially important, especially in relationships.

According to the law of the universe, others love and respect you as much as you love and respect yourself.

So if you want to experience a better relationship, you should develop a better personality.

One of the characteristics of people with high self-esteem is their ability to say “NO” when they want to, and not to be influenced by or worry about the opinions of others.

If we do not consider our work valuable, others will not consider it valuable either.

If we consider our work valuable, we will not offer our services to those who do not consider them valuable.

We should regard our time and energy as valuable.

Self-worth is what distinguishes the results of people who work in the same field and the impact of their work on the people who use their services.

Do you think that your skills are nothing special and that anyone can do what you do? Or do you think that you have unique skills and can always work on improving them by learning new things?

Our lack of self-esteem is reflected in our frequency, and others feel it too. So we won’t get the results we want.

We should constantly work on our self-worth. It’s a never-ending journey.

If we are convinced of ourselves and our abilities, we can charge top dollar for our services. Otherwise, we will ask for low prices and are open to negotiations on price or installment payments.

This is why people with the same skills experience different financial realities.

If you see your time as a valuable resource, you will not allow others who are always unpunctual to disrespect it and you will respectfully draw their attention to it or break off your relations with that person.

If you have high self-esteem, you will not allow others to disrespect you in any way or take a disrespectful situation with humor. You simply will not tolerate it.

If you do not believe in yourself and your abilities, this belief runs like a program in you every day and leads to a dominant vibration that creates the corresponding reality for you.

Instead of focusing on our desires, we should concentrate on increasing our self-esteem, and then we will naturally achieve them more effortlessly.

Instead of setting multiple goals, make it your main goal to improve yourself, including your self-confidence, courage, faith, positive habits, and other personality traits.

Typically, the change we resist most is the one that is most necessary, such as letting go of our unhealthy ego or working on our interpersonal skills.

Active listening, not making rude jokes, respecting others, and making others feel important are some of the interpersonal skills that help us improve our relationships.

The fruits of a better personality, built on a solid foundation and shaped over years and not just overnight, are very sweet.

The blessings rain down on us all. It is only a question of how great our personality is in various aspects to receive these blessings.

This is why it is important that we are at peace with ourselves and have confidence in our abilities. Self-worth outweighs all other success factors.

Drug addiction or similar destructive behaviors are a consequence of self-hatred.

This world is like a self-service restaurant open to all. Those with low self-esteem will choose the worst food, while those with high self-esteem will choose the best.

Self-worth changes our perspective on everything and leads to positive results in all aspects of our lives.

Those who complain about not being respected owe themselves respect.

Our self-worth also affects the extent of our desires. Those with low self-esteem choose small goals because they feel unworthy of ambitious dreams and settle for the least.

If we do not feel worthy of a desire, the thought of having it does not even occur to us, let alone that we can visualize it.

The universe cannot give you more than your capacity. Your capacity grows through improvements in your personality. The resources and blessings are unlimited. We limit ourselves by our limited growth.

Separate yourself respectfully from those who do not respect you. Don’t go to places that don’t agree with your values. Eat good food. Invest in yourself. Don’t waste your time on social media.

Self-worth puts other parts of self-improvement in their place.

Whatever you want to do or say, ask yourself: Is it based on low self-esteem or not?

Reading the comments of others on the website can help us gain new perspectives on various topics.

Success is the result of who you become, not what you do. It is about a certain kind of personality, not about a certain action.

Children all have high self-esteem. So we need to take an example from children and reclaim our sense of worth.

The universe rewards us very quickly for our improvements, be it financial success, career, health, relationship, etc.

Self-worth is the determining factor in our outcomes because it is the result of a repetitive way of thinking that shapes our self-talk and forms our personality. These beliefs form the dominant vibrations that create our reality. So if we want to change our reality, we should start from self-worth.

Thank you all.